Etiquette and Morals of Companions

Etiquette and Morals of Companionship By Imam Abu Abdul Rahman al-Sulami al-Naysaburi (330 - 412H)

Islãm provides a code of ethics governing every aspect of human life. It is a means by which individuals and societies live a successful life and are able to forge and nurture harmonious relationships. The elderly and the young, men and women, in adhering to Islamic manners, benefit from this distinct feature of the Shari'ah that is often neglected.

 Understanding the rights of fellow Muslims and our obligations towards each other ensures cohesion. In an age of liberal individualism, looking after number one all too often leads to apathy and a distinct lack of concern and respect for each other, and acquaintances often become tools for mere personal gains. Our role in society should reflect the very essence of Islãm that calls for upholding bonds of kinship and maintaining ties of brotherhood in the wider community as a whole.

 Know that the rights of companionship and the etiquette of consorting with people are diverse, requiring tact and wisdom to be observed. A believer is responsible for preserving the principles tied to Isläm, like being good-mannered, fair, courteous, loving, merciful, and forgiving, etc. They are a means to promoting rapport and nurturing affection, while refining one's own character in the process.

 This profound work will benefit people at every level of the social spectrum, as it is a guide in highlighting the essentials of friendship that Islam requires of us. It is also an excellent textbook that can ideally be used to teach the ethics of the subject matter to our youth.

The author, Imãm Abu 'Abdul Rahmãn al-Sulami al-Naysaburi [d.412H], authored over a hundred works. He was known for his piety and was highly respected by the people of his city. He was the teacher of many famous scholars of his time, such as Imãm al-Bayhaqi.